Didja Set Your Goals Today?
Goals. Just that single word alone can cause anxiety in some people, but I feel that they are essential to living a full and complete life. I can find few things that can give such a feeling of accomplishment other than meeting a goal that you've set. There are long-term, short-term, and temporary goals. I think you have to use a mix of all three. I have daily, weekly, monthly, yearly, and lifetime goals. My daily goals are things that are more tangible, such as Get the laundry done; Go to two classes at the gym today. I have my weekly goals that are things that are still pretty easily manageable, but could take a little work. For example, Go to ZUMBA every day this week; Finish scrubbing the walls; Meditate each morning for at least 5 minutes before getting up are all examples of weekly goals that I've set for myself.
Then, I set goals that take a little longer to accomplish. These are the tougher ones; ones that I find can be a bit of a challenge. Even though they are a challenge, they still need to be reasonable. Too often, people set goals that are impossible unreasonable and get disappointed when they don't meet them. Why set yourself up for failure? I mean, setting a challenge for yourself is one thing, but make sure the challenge is do-able. Usually my yearly goals are tied to my resolutions for the new year. Last year, I set a yearly goal that I would attend Weight Watchers for a full year, and that's just what I did. This year, I joined a gym the first week of the new year, and I'm still going 8 months later. So far, so good! Yearly goals don't have to begin in January- in fact, I have begun my own "Happiness Project" (a book by Gretchen Rubin) and it's a year-long project that I just began in July. We'll see where I'm at with it next July.
Some of the most important, soul-changing goals are those lifetime ones. These are the biggies; the ones that are tough but are amazing if you accomplish them. These are the wishes and dreams that you can make happen. My past lifetime goals? Become a teacher. Get married. Become a mother. Get my Master's Degree. Buy a house. My upcoming ones? Well.... those are still a work in progress, and I'm happy to report that they are coming along nicely. :) How about you? Do you set goals for yourself? If no, then why not? I encourage you to make yourself some goals, short- and long-term. What's the worst that could happen, right?
Nice post! Unreasonable and stressful goals are usually my problem. But not now. I am staying at home with my 21 months old - so, it seems no long term goals for me now. And that makes the life boring :)
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